TAKE CARE OF THE PERSON IN THE MIRROR FIRST!

Why do YOU feel the NEED TO make other people HAPPY?

Often times we find ourselves too busy trying to make other people happy that

we forget to make the most important person happy. YOU! We exhaust ourselves to appease other people

and hardly ever take time out to simply take care of our own personal selves. 

I know this may sound "selfish" but truth of the matter is, we have to be. If you take care of yourself, you

maintain your solid foundation. Our foundation needs to be solid to take care of your family, friends & loved

ones.  

  

A solid foundation can withstand the weight of the world, especially during those hard times and most of all, a solid foundation does not crack so easily. 

Let me turn it around for you if you still don't get the reason why YOU need to take care of yourself first

and make sure, you are happy. 

Do you feel down, tired, defeated, abused, underappreciated and/or depleted due to the fact that you have

put your all into someone and have received nothing in return. Your foundation make appear solid but in

fact, it is nothing more than sinking sand. Now, add your family, friends & loved ones to stand in your
sinking sand so they can slowly start to sink too. Due to the fact that your foundation is weak, any little thing
can penetrate you to break you down, hurt you and maybe even destroy you!

Let go of that NEED to make other people happy and start taking care of the person in the mirror first. Love & appreciate the person in the mirror and build a solid foundation together!